Ego is The Enemy

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No doubt Ego is something very dangerous for ourselves & it can be the worst self destructive element.Ego is the enemy written by Ryan Holiday which shares his personal observations & experiences with the readers. 

Ego is something which can fool us and stop our growth because we start thinking better than many around us which limitize our learning process. 


To be or to do are two options we have the one makes us imagine and do nothing while the other is the one based on reality where we have to do to prove.

To stay away from ego be a student forever & continue your learning process.A learned person Can't be Egoist because humility is the reflection of his learning. 

Don't be such passionate who forgets everything else in the following of passion & when doesn't get that either finds itself a dead man.

The heigher vision makes us think heigher and do the bigger acts.The one with the learned mind can't accept everything being told & can't accept the directions blindly. 

A humble person needs to be calm, self possessed,patient & polite.These all qualities help us to restrain ourselves & keep the ego away.

Thinking is no doubt a beautiful act one enjoys thoroughly but all the time thinking may lead us to destroyal & make us self centred person who doesn't like to see anything out of his own life & believes it to be the perfect one.

The early pride is the most dangerous one because it tells you that you have achieved the destiny & the one already reaches to destiny without travelling can be understood easily. 

Work, work & work keeps you active learner & a human in the search of self.Keeping yourself engaged in different assignments is the sign of productivity. 

Success can't be the destiny for the life-long learners because they believe in continuous journey in life while those with the static mindset short success is all.For all successes of life Ego needs to be kept far.

Be realistic in approach so fantasies can't hold you from moving ahead in your journey.The ones stay with the myths can't enjoy the growth mindset & remain enslaved by the Ego.

To know what you like is the beginning of wisdom and of old age is said by Robert Louise Stevenson.Check your priorities & follow the top ones 1st.This habit of self knowing keeps us growing mentally & teach us self management skills too. 

The disease of ME needs proper cure so we can see the world around us & people may need us to survive. It doesn't help us to feel for others but develop us mentally where we understand humanity. 

Self meditation is high useful sport which brings us closer to ourselves and peace.It teaches us how to be a sober personality & to manage the Ego in us.

Failure are stairs to success that are to improve our performance not to stop it.It helps us to understand the real value & utility of time.Life is the name of struggle which should be made as long we breathe.

We must plan time bound  goals to maintain our own scorecard but still stay in love with the world rather than developing anger for it.Whatever we do in life we must remember Ego can't be our friend ever.

Atiq Raja 

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